Idols have hearts, they have souls, they have a conscience, and they also have lives. They fall in love, they keep secrets, they play games,they do things for their community, they make mistakes, they make people laugh, and they make people cry. Plus, their daily lives are truly not that much different from ours (other than the whole idol part).
So, instead of people just using idols’ “scandals” and tragic events for their own purposes, just remember that they do have a family, they do have friends and fans, and they do have actual feelings.
my eyes are prickling just thinking about it eunbis such a young and happy person and literally just yesterday they released that video of ladies code goofing around and playing rock paper scissors and i really dont know where im going with this but its so fucking terrifying and heartbreaking that she had an entire career ahead of her and death literally comes upon anyone at any time and idk idk i dont fucking know
I know you’re sad, so I won’t tell you to have a good day. Instead, I advise you to simply have a day. Stay alive, feed yourself well, wear comfortable clothes, and don’t give up on yourself just yet. It’ll get better. Until then, have a day.
Do not tell me your best friend would not sit in at your lunch table for three fucking days just staring blankly at your old seat wishing that you were there to fill the space with laughter.
Do not tell me your younger brother would not break down in the middle of class because you guys started talking about your favorite type of subject in school.
Do not tell me your mother would not stare into the mirror with trembling lips wishing she could be bringing you home from the hospital rather than having to escort you away in a casket to the nearest graveyard.
Do not tell me your father would not begin working the night shifts to distract himself of the silence at home because you’re not up until the ungodly hours of the night talking to what’s-his/her-face on the phone because you guys are so in love.
Do not tell me your boyfriend/girlfriend would not go into your room and put on the last hoodie you wore trying to desperately imprint your scent onto their skin so they never forget your smell.
Do not tell me your friends would not stare blankly at the gymnasium wall after the principal has announced your death to the entire school making no sound trying to convince themselves this is just another one of your impractical jokes.
Do NOT fucking TELL ME this bullshit line of how the stars would still appear the sun would still come out the earth would still rotate and the seasons will still change because without YOU you lil beautiful piece of human being none of these people will want ANY of that to happen.
To hear that a K-pop idol died scares the shit out of me. It is just another reminder that idol’s are human and death is a possibility at any time. Cherish the moments with your idols while they are still here. Don’t cause fanwars or bash idols for no reasons because one day those idols will be gone. Enjoy the music and give them as much love as you can because you never know when it’s too late.
because it seems whenever a person or a group of people die you get those rotten fans saying disgusting shit like “thank god it was them and not my faves”
like the ferry incident when vile exo stans were saying “thank god they died and not exo”
i’m just really upset and if i see anybody posting something like “it was only a ladies’ code member it’s not like they were a huge kpop group, thank god it wasn’t my bias” i will seriously drag people into a fire
PLEASE. DON’T. FUCKING. WRITE. SHIT. LIKE. THIS.
i felt like i had to write this because it always happens and it’s so sick and disrespectful, everybody is human and everybody’s lives are worth the same no matter how popular they are, how much awards they’ve won, no matter if they aren’t even famous. just because you have a fave idol doesn’t make their lives more important and it doesn’t give you the right to disrespect other people’s worth/lives.